My definition of "happiness"

    I'm a very simple and minimalistic person for I find happiness in small things. At the end of the day, it's something we actually strive for. A lot of people wander in the dark, lamenting on their life circumstance as if happiness is forbidden to them. In fact they fail to identify the gem that's hidden inside them.

   Life is a rollercoaster of emotions, of ups and downs, of wins and losses. That's how it is meant to be. Caught in this maze, we often forget to find ways which can illuminate our mind. Those who can make harmony and peace amidst all these are the real winners of life.

Drawing my personal experience to this, I do not want great things to be happy. Watching a sunset can make me happy. A random message or a smile from a stranger can make me happy.
An expression of concern from my beloved can make me happy. Sitting on my couch watching my favourite show on television is my ultimate definition of happiness. A slight touch, a tight hug, a pat on my shoulder, isn't this enough to make oneself happy? 

    Love yourself, happiness will find its way to you. Wake up in the morning, gaze at the mirror, smile and give yourself a warm hug. Say I'm here for you, you're not alone. Make yourself a cup of coffee and enjoy it sitting in your balcony. Go on solo dates, buy yourself flowers. Nobody can make you happier than you can.

    Sit back and read, and if this elevated your thought in some way, do comment. Be happy, make yourself and everyone around you happy. 🤗

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